Kolette Hall

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Realistic List

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What have I been doing this week?

I have a list.
It’s a special list.
It’s called a “Realistic List.”
Ever had one of those?

I add all the things to it that come to mind that need to get done - if it’s not on the list, it’s lost in space.

But these are actual things that need to get done.
No “maybe I shoulds” make it to the Realistic List.
This is not the time for the non-vital tasks, right?

And it’s kinda freeing to allow yourself to only do the things that matter the most. I wonder how long I can keep this state of mind?🤔 #goals

I choose one thing on my “Realistic List” to do each day. If I do more than that then I’m a đźŚźROCK STAR!

So, then I do TWO things on the list...because who doesn’t want to be a đźŚźROCK STAR?

I often ask for help. Like when I went to visit the cemetery and Jason’s flowers were crumpled and dry.

I just couldn’t throw them away by myself. It hurt my heart to think of doing it alone.
So, I listened to my heart...

Then I called my friend Patty, picked her up, we drove the five minutes back to Jason, she found a dumpster and we tossed them in.

Together was easy.
Thank goodness.✊🏻💙
#buddyblessed #realisticlist