Kolette Hall

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Life Coaching is Weird

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Itā€™s weird to hire a life coach.
I know.
Itā€™s a new-ish idea. And unknown for many of us.
Totally weird.
ā€œJust think positive. Set some goals. Go for them. Be a nice person.ā€
Why would you need a coach for your life? Just live your life. Do those things.

Life coaching is weird.

Until you try it.
Like I did. These are my coaches.
They each started as my coach but now theyā€™re my friends. That happens.

You try this weird thing called hiring a life coach.
And you learn that you donā€™t have to feel so much stress. Or anxiety. Or overwhelm. Or guilt.
You donā€™t have to fight to control your life or your spouse or your kids.
You donā€™t have to hang onto certain limiting characteristics because ā€œIā€™m just that way.ā€
You donā€™t have to work to please your client or your family.
You donā€™t have to do the entire To Do List.
You donā€™t have to make everybody happy. Or make them have a good experience. Or make them feel the way you do. Or make them do what you think is best.

I know.
It sounds weird to think you donā€™t have to do any of those things. Think any of those things. Feel any of those things.
Thatā€™s why life coaching is weird.
Because we havenā€™t realized that the stress of ā€œnormal lifeā€ is actually not normal at all. Itā€™s not required. Itā€™s not just how life is.

We can feel better.
More peace. More calm. More confidence. More control of the things we actually have control over.
More sighs of relief.
More empowerment.
More propelling toward your goals because barriers are moved out of the way.
More real you.

Thatā€™s so weird.šŸ’™āœŠšŸ»